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Lovehoney A Guide to Talking Dirty

by: Lovehoney

For those who love to talk dirty, but get a little tongue-tied, we have the perfect guide. With 52 phrases to try with your lover, this pocket-sized book is...

Rated 80 out of 100
(45 ratings)

See 33 reviews below

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Description
For those who love to talk dirty, but get a little tongue-tied, we have the perfect guide. With 52 phrases to try with your lover, this pocket-sized book is sure to get your creative juices flowing. Use the guide for inspiration, then try a freestyle.

From the somewhat innocent “undress me slowly” to the downright daring “I want to f*ck you in the mouth”, this handy guide features plenty of erotica to explore.

Each page has a phrase, a stylish illustration and a sensual tip to try in partnership with your new vocabulary.

Includes a to/from page for gifting to your lover.

Features
  • Pocket-sized guide to talking dirty for chatty seduction
  • Hard-backed and brightly coloured for the perfect cheeky gift
  • 52 sexy phrases for plenty of inspiration
Specifications
Book Format:
Hardback
Book Contents:
Sex Tips
Hawttt Product ID:
5466
Category:
Essentials
Category:
Books
Category:
lovehoney
Extended Information

For those who love to talk dirty, but get a little tongue-tied, we have the perfect guide. With 52 phrases to try with your lover, this pocket-sized book is sure to get your creative juices flowing. Use the guide for inspiration, then try a freestyle.From the somewhat innocent “undress me slowly” to the downright daring “I want to f*ck you in the mouth”, this handy guide features plenty of erotica to explore.Each page has a phrase, a stylish illustration and a sensual tip to try in partnership with your new vocabulary.Includes a to/from page for gifting to your lover.


Product Reviews
A good starting point
Rated 8 / 10

As always with Lovehoney, the order was delivered very quickly and in the usual discreet packaging. The book looks very nice and is set out with one tip per page. The tips are relatively brief and give an idea of what to say without going into too much detail to allow you to build on the idea. After the tip of what to say, it goes on to give you some suggestion on how to use that to take your dirty talking further. If you're used to dirty talking then this might be a bit basic, but as someone quite new to dirty talking and wanting to start, this is a good place to get ideas.


A really good book
Rated 8 / 10

We were wonderfully chosen by the people at LH HQ to review this for them. Thanks so much for this opportunity! As usual with LH, it came quickly and discreetly (unlike us ;) ). My partner and I already enjoy dirty talk, so we were keen to try out this product and store up some new go-to phrases! It has a lovely, sensual design and it's very sturdy, so we have no worries about it tearing or breaking. It's palm size, so can be read/turned with one hand - very handy! There are 52 phrases plus a 'top tips' section, ranging from entry-level to light dom/sub directions and demands. While a few of them are questions ("How would you like me to make you cum?") most are directions ("Tell me how wet/hard I make you."), meaning if you are lacking in confidence it could be a little intimidating. You may need to tweak a few of them to fit your own personal dynamic. They're in no particular order (may have missed a trick there), and we both agreed that most of them are very tantalising! They're definitely jumping off points - to be effective you'll need to be confident and explore the feelings/desires each phrase conjures. Kind of like a scene setter and you'll need a bit of imagination to keep things cooking. If you're new to dirty talk then it's a great book to flick through before or during play and pick out your faves/ones you are comfortable with. For the veterans, we recommend memorising a few and throwing them out when the time is right! Overall a great addition to the collection, well done Lovehoney!


Sex up your bedroom chat
Rated 8 / 10

If you're a fan of filthy pillow talk but need a bit of inspiration, or you want to encourage a partner to be more vocal in bed, this could definitely be the book for you. Firstly, the book itself is cute - slightly larger than palm-sized, hard-backed and coloured in shocking pink and yellow, I think it instantly looks like a book you want to pick up and flick through. And you will be richly rewarded if you do. Inside there are 52 dirty talk tips (that's one a week for a whole year if you pace yourself!) to help you bring sexy chat back. The tips are well written and presented and all entirely 'doable'. I'd say about 50% of the ideas I already use on some level but the others provided lots of inspiration for future naughty chats with my Husband. The tips are short and succinct and nicely illustrated. Some are kinky, some are basic, some are a little more daring but they're all guaranteed to spice up your evening. If you like the idea of dirty talk but sometimes get a bit tongue-tied this will absolutely boost your confidence, point you in the right direction and give you a good stock of phrases to whip out at the right moment. Similarly, if you want to help a partner feel more comfortable with such things, this would be a great gift. The perfect cheeky stocking filler.


Talking the Dirty Talk
Rated 8 / 10

If like myself you aren’t very confident talking dirty in the bedroom or over the phone then this is perfect. It’s super fun and has some (all 52) really great tips and advice on what to say and in what situation. The pages are colourful with short text and pictures. I actually opened it with my partner and we had a flip through together. And before you know it you’re speaking words you never thought would ever leave your mouth. It’s not an in-depth read and it’s small (I think it’s A6), so could make a good stocking filler over Christmas or a present for a hen-do/stag-do. It isn’t biased against a gender either, so could be something that benefits either partner and is a good bit of fun.


Pretty good laugh
Rated 6 / 10

Bought this as I thought it would be a goodbye present for me and the other half to try. Neither of us know how to talk that dirty and surprisingly the book was pretty tame but it made us giggle a little bit. There are some repeated pages just worded differently.


Pretty good laugh
Rated 3 / 5

Bought this as I thought it would be a goodbye present for me and the other half to try, neither of us know how to talk that dirty and surprisingly the book was pretty tame but it made us giggle a little bit. There are some repeated pages just worded differently.


A good starting point
Rated 4 / 5

As always with Lovehoney the order was delivered very quickly and in the usual discreet packaging. The book looks very nice and is set out with 1 tip per page. The tips are relatively brief and give an idea of what to say without going into too much detail to allow you to build on the idea. After the tip of what to say it goes on to give you some suggestion on how to use that to take your dirty talking further. If you're used to dirty talking then this might be a bit basic, but as someone quite new to dirty talking and wanting to start this is a good place to get ideas.


A really good book
Rated 4 / 5

We were wonderfully chosen by the people at LH HQ to review this for them, thanks so much for this opportunity! As usual with LH it came quickly and discreetly (unlike us ;) ) My partner and I already enjoy dirty talk so we were keen to try out this product and store up some new go-to phrases! It has a lovely, sensual design and it's very sturdy so we have no worries about it tearing or breaking. It's palm size so can be read/turned with one hand - very handy! There are 52 phrases plus a 'top tips' section, ranging from entry-level to light dom/sub directions and demands. While a few of them are questions ("How would you like me to make you cum?") most are directions ("Tell me how wet/hard I make you."), meaning if you are lacking in confidence it could be a little intimidating. You may need to tweak a few of them to fit your own personal dynamic. They're in no particular order (may have missed a trick there) and we both agreed that most of them are very tantalising! They're definitely jumping off points - to be effective you'll need to be confident and explore the feelings/desires each phrase conjures. Kind of like a scene setter and you'll need a bit of imagination to keep things cooking. If you're new to dirty talk then it's a great book to flick through before or during play and pick out your faves / ones you are comfortable with. For the veterans we recommend memorising a few and throwing them out when the time is right! Overall a great addition to the collection, well done Lovehoney!


Sex up your bedroom chat
Rated 4 / 5

If you're a fan of filthy pillow talk but need a bit of inspiration, or you want to encourage a partner to be more vocal in bed, this could definitely be the book for you. Firstly the book itself is cute - slightly larger than palm-sized, hard-backed and coloured in shocking pink and yellow, I think it instantly looks like a book you want to pick up and flick through. And you will be richly rewarded if you do. Inside there are 52 dirty talk tips (that's one a week for a whole year if you pace yourself!) to help you bring sexy chat back. The tips are well written and presented and all entirely 'doable'. I'd say about 50% of the ideas I already use on some level but the others provided lots of inspiration for future naughty chats with my Husband. The tips are short and succinct and nicely illustrated. Some are kinky, some are basic, some are a little more daring but they're all guaranteed to spice up your evening. If you like the idea of dirty talk but sometimes get a bit tongue-tied this will absolutely boost your confidence, point you in the right direction and give you a good stock of phrases to whip out at the right moment. Similarly, if you want to help a partner feel more comfortable with such things, this would be a great gift. The perfect cheeky stocking filler.


Talking the Dirty Talk
Rated 4 / 5

If like myself you aren’t very confident talking dirty in the bedroom or over the phone then this is perfect. It’s super fun and has some (all 52) really great tips and advice on what to say and in what situation. The pages are colourful with short text and pictures. I actually opened it with my partner and we had a flip through together. And before you know it you’re speaking words you never thought would ever leave your mouth. It’s not an in-depth read and it’s small (I think it’s A6) so could make a good stocking filler over Christmas or a present for a hen-do/stag-do. It isn’t biased against a gender either so could be something that benefits either partner and is a good bit of fun.


Pretty good laugh
Rated 3 / 5

Bought this as I thought it would be a goodbye present for me and the other half to try, neither of us know how to talk that dirty and surprisingly the book was pretty tame but it made us giggle a little bit. There are some repeated pages just worded differently.


A good starting point
Rated 4 / 5

As always with Lovehoney the order was delivered very quickly and in the usual discreet packaging. The book looks very nice and is set out with 1 tip per page. The tips are relatively brief and give an idea of what to say without going into too much detail to allow you to build on the idea. After the tip of what to say it goes on to give you some suggestion on how to use that to take your dirty talking further. If you're used to dirty talking then this might be a bit basic, but as someone quite new to dirty talking and wanting to start this is a good place to get ideas.


A really good book
Rated 4 / 5

We were wonderfully chosen by the people at LH HQ to review this for them, thanks so much for this opportunity! As usual with LH it came quickly and discreetly (unlike us ;) ) My partner and I already enjoy dirty talk so we were keen to try out this product and store up some new go-to phrases! It has a lovely, sensual design and it's very sturdy so we have no worries about it tearing or breaking. It's palm size so can be read/turned with one hand - very handy! There are 52 phrases plus a 'top tips' section, ranging from entry-level to light dom/sub directions and demands. While a few of them are questions ("How would you like me to make you cum?") most are directions ("Tell me how wet/hard I make you."), meaning if you are lacking in confidence it could be a little intimidating. You may need to tweak a few of them to fit your own personal dynamic. They're in no particular order (may have missed a trick there) and we both agreed that most of them are very tantalising! They're definitely jumping off points - to be effective you'll need to be confident and explore the feelings/desires each phrase conjures. Kind of like a scene setter and you'll need a bit of imagination to keep things cooking. If you're new to dirty talk then it's a great book to flick through before or during play and pick out your faves / ones you are comfortable with. For the veterans we recommend memorising a few and throwing them out when the time is right! Overall a great addition to the collection, well done Lovehoney!


Sex up your bedroom chat
Rated 4 / 5

If you're a fan of filthy pillow talk but need a bit of inspiration, or you want to encourage a partner to be more vocal in bed, this could definitely be the book for you. Firstly the book itself is cute - slightly larger than palm-sized, hard-backed and coloured in shocking pink and yellow, I think it instantly looks like a book you want to pick up and flick through. And you will be richly rewarded if you do. Inside there are 52 dirty talk tips (that's one a week for a whole year if you pace yourself!) to help you bring sexy chat back. The tips are well written and presented and all entirely 'doable'. I'd say about 50% of the ideas I already use on some level but the others provided lots of inspiration for future naughty chats with my Husband. The tips are short and succinct and nicely illustrated. Some are kinky, some are basic, some are a little more daring but they're all guaranteed to spice up your evening. If you like the idea of dirty talk but sometimes get a bit tongue-tied this will absolutely boost your confidence, point you in the right direction and give you a good stock of phrases to whip out at the right moment. Similarly, if you want to help a partner feel more comfortable with such things, this would be a great gift. The perfect cheeky stocking filler.


Talking the Dirty Talk
Rated 4 / 5

If like myself you aren’t very confident talking dirty in the bedroom or over the phone then this is perfect. It’s super fun and has some (all 52) really great tips and advice on what to say and in what situation. The pages are colourful with short text and pictures. I actually opened it with my partner and we had a flip through together. And before you know it you’re speaking words you never thought would ever leave your mouth. It’s not an in-depth read and it’s small (I think it’s A6) so could make a good stocking filler over Christmas or a present for a hen-do/stag-do. It isn’t biased against a gender either so could be something that benefits either partner and is a good bit of fun.


Pretty good laugh
Rated 3 / 5

Bought this as I thought it would be a goodbye present for me and the other half to try, neither of us know how to talk that dirty and surprisingly the book was pretty tame but it made us giggle a little bit. There are some repeated pages just worded differently.


A good starting point
Rated 4 / 5

As always with Lovehoney the order was delivered very quickly and in the usual discreet packaging. The book looks very nice and is set out with 1 tip per page. The tips are relatively brief and give an idea of what to say without going into too much detail to allow you to build on the idea. After the tip of what to say it goes on to give you some suggestion on how to use that to take your dirty talking further. If you're used to dirty talking then this might be a bit basic, but as someone quite new to dirty talking and wanting to start this is a good place to get ideas.


A really good book
Rated 4 / 5

We were wonderfully chosen by the people at LH HQ to review this for them, thanks so much for this opportunity! As usual with LH it came quickly and discreetly (unlike us ;) ) My partner and I already enjoy dirty talk so we were keen to try out this product and store up some new go-to phrases! It has a lovely, sensual design and it's very sturdy so we have no worries about it tearing or breaking. It's palm size so can be read/turned with one hand - very handy! There are 52 phrases plus a 'top tips' section, ranging from entry-level to light dom/sub directions and demands. While a few of them are questions ("How would you like me to make you cum?") most are directions ("Tell me how wet/hard I make you."), meaning if you are lacking in confidence it could be a little intimidating. You may need to tweak a few of them to fit your own personal dynamic. They're in no particular order (may have missed a trick there) and we both agreed that most of them are very tantalising! They're definitely jumping off points - to be effective you'll need to be confident and explore the feelings/desires each phrase conjures. Kind of like a scene setter and you'll need a bit of imagination to keep things cooking. If you're new to dirty talk then it's a great book to flick through before or during play and pick out your faves / ones you are comfortable with. For the veterans we recommend memorising a few and throwing them out when the time is right! Overall a great addition to the collection, well done Lovehoney!


Sex up your bedroom chat
Rated 4 / 5

If you're a fan of filthy pillow talk but need a bit of inspiration, or you want to encourage a partner to be more vocal in bed, this could definitely be the book for you. Firstly the book itself is cute - slightly larger than palm-sized, hard-backed and coloured in shocking pink and yellow, I think it instantly looks like a book you want to pick up and flick through. And you will be richly rewarded if you do. Inside there are 52 dirty talk tips (that's one a week for a whole year if you pace yourself!) to help you bring sexy chat back. The tips are well written and presented and all entirely 'doable'. I'd say about 50% of the ideas I already use on some level but the others provided lots of inspiration for future naughty chats with my Husband. The tips are short and succinct and nicely illustrated. Some are kinky, some are basic, some are a little more daring but they're all guaranteed to spice up your evening. If you like the idea of dirty talk but sometimes get a bit tongue-tied this will absolutely boost your confidence, point you in the right direction and give you a good stock of phrases to whip out at the right moment. Similarly, if you want to help a partner feel more comfortable with such things, this would be a great gift. The perfect cheeky stocking filler.


Talking the Dirty Talk
Rated 4 / 5

If like myself you aren’t very confident talking dirty in the bedroom or over the phone then this is perfect. It’s super fun and has some (all 52) really great tips and advice on what to say and in what situation. The pages are colourful with short text and pictures. I actually opened it with my partner and we had a flip through together. And before you know it you’re speaking words you never thought would ever leave your mouth. It’s not an in-depth read and it’s small (I think it’s A6) so could make a good stocking filler over Christmas or a present for a hen-do/stag-do. It isn’t biased against a gender either so could be something that benefits either partner and is a good bit of fun.


Not a guide, more a list of ideas
Rated 3 / 5

I can’t fault the print, style and design of the book. It’s very well made an unobtrusive.


Not a guide, more a list of ideas
Rated 3 / 5

I can’t fault the print, style and design of the book. It’s very well made an unobtrusive.


Not a guide, more a list of ideas
Rated 3 / 5

I can’t fault the print, style and design of the book. It’s very well made an unobtrusive.


Not a guide, more a list of ideas
Rated 3 / 5

I can’t fault the print, style and design of the book. It’s very well made an unobtrusive.


Pretty good laugh
Rated 3 / 5

Bought this as I thought it would be a goodbye present for me and the other half to try, neither of us know how to talk that dirty and surprisingly the book was pretty tame but it made us giggle a little bit. There are some repeated pages just worded differently.


A good starting point
Rated 4 / 5

As always with Lovehoney the order was delivered very quickly and in the usual discreet packaging. The book looks very nice and is set out with 1 tip per page. The tips are relatively brief and give an idea of what to say without going into too much detail to allow you to build on the idea. After the tip of what to say it goes on to give you some suggestion on how to use that to take your dirty talking further. If you're used to dirty talking then this might be a bit basic, but as someone quite new to dirty talking and wanting to start this is a good place to get ideas.


A really good book
Rated 4 / 5

We were wonderfully chosen by the people at LH HQ to review this for them, thanks so much for this opportunity! As usual with LH it came quickly and discreetly (unlike us ;) ) My partner and I already enjoy dirty talk so we were keen to try out this product and store up some new go-to phrases! It has a lovely, sensual design and it's very sturdy so we have no worries about it tearing or breaking. It's palm size so can be read/turned with one hand - very handy! There are 52 phrases plus a 'top tips' section, ranging from entry-level to light dom/sub directions and demands. While a few of them are questions ("How would you like me to make you cum?") most are directions ("Tell me how wet/hard I make you."), meaning if you are lacking in confidence it could be a little intimidating. You may need to tweak a few of them to fit your own personal dynamic. They're in no particular order (may have missed a trick there) and we both agreed that most of them are very tantalising! They're definitely jumping off points - to be effective you'll need to be confident and explore the feelings/desires each phrase conjures. Kind of like a scene setter and you'll need a bit of imagination to keep things cooking. If you're new to dirty talk then it's a great book to flick through before or during play and pick out your faves / ones you are comfortable with. For the veterans we recommend memorising a few and throwing them out when the time is right! Overall a great addition to the collection, well done Lovehoney!


Sex up your bedroom chat
Rated 4 / 5

If you're a fan of filthy pillow talk but need a bit of inspiration, or you want to encourage a partner to be more vocal in bed, this could definitely be the book for you. Firstly the book itself is cute - slightly larger than palm-sized, hard-backed and coloured in shocking pink and yellow, I think it instantly looks like a book you want to pick up and flick through. And you will be richly rewarded if you do. Inside there are 52 dirty talk tips (that's one a week for a whole year if you pace yourself!) to help you bring sexy chat back. The tips are well written and presented and all entirely 'doable'. I'd say about 50% of the ideas I already use on some level but the others provided lots of inspiration for future naughty chats with my Husband. The tips are short and succinct and nicely illustrated. Some are kinky, some are basic, some are a little more daring but they're all guaranteed to spice up your evening. If you like the idea of dirty talk but sometimes get a bit tongue-tied this will absolutely boost your confidence, point you in the right direction and give you a good stock of phrases to whip out at the right moment. Similarly, if you want to help a partner feel more comfortable with such things, this would be a great gift. The perfect cheeky stocking filler.


Not a guide, more a list of ideas
Rated 3 / 5

I can’t fault the print, style and design of the book. It’s very well made an unobtrusive.


Pretty good laugh
Rated 3 / 5

Bought this as I thought it would be a goodbye present for me and the other half to try, neither of us know how to talk that dirty and surprisingly the book was pretty tame but it made us giggle a little bit. There are some repeated pages just worded differently.


A good starting point
Rated 4 / 5

As always with Lovehoney the order was delivered very quickly and in the usual discreet packaging. The book looks very nice and is set out with 1 tip per page. The tips are relatively brief and give an idea of what to say without going into too much detail to allow you to build on the idea. After the tip of what to say it goes on to give you some suggestion on how to use that to take your dirty talking further. If you're used to dirty talking then this might be a bit basic, but as someone quite new to dirty talking and wanting to start this is a good place to get ideas.


A really good book
Rated 4 / 5

We were wonderfully chosen by the people at LH HQ to review this for them, thanks so much for this opportunity! As usual with LH it came quickly and discreetly (unlike us ;) ) My partner and I already enjoy dirty talk so we were keen to try out this product and store up some new go-to phrases! It has a lovely, sensual design and it's very sturdy so we have no worries about it tearing or breaking. It's palm size so can be read/turned with one hand - very handy! There are 52 phrases plus a 'top tips' section, ranging from entry-level to light dom/sub directions and demands. While a few of them are questions ("How would you like me to make you cum?") most are directions ("Tell me how wet/hard I make you."), meaning if you are lacking in confidence it could be a little intimidating. You may need to tweak a few of them to fit your own personal dynamic. They're in no particular order (may have missed a trick there) and we both agreed that most of them are very tantalising! They're definitely jumping off points - to be effective you'll need to be confident and explore the feelings/desires each phrase conjures. Kind of like a scene setter and you'll need a bit of imagination to keep things cooking. If you're new to dirty talk then it's a great book to flick through before or during play and pick out your faves / ones you are comfortable with. For the veterans we recommend memorising a few and throwing them out when the time is right! Overall a great addition to the collection, well done Lovehoney!


Sex up your bedroom chat
Rated 4 / 5

If you're a fan of filthy pillow talk but need a bit of inspiration, or you want to encourage a partner to be more vocal in bed, this could definitely be the book for you. Firstly the book itself is cute - slightly larger than palm-sized, hard-backed and coloured in shocking pink and yellow, I think it instantly looks like a book you want to pick up and flick through. And you will be richly rewarded if you do. Inside there are 52 dirty talk tips (that's one a week for a whole year if you pace yourself!) to help you bring sexy chat back. The tips are well written and presented and all entirely 'doable'. I'd say about 50% of the ideas I already use on some level but the others provided lots of inspiration for future naughty chats with my Husband. The tips are short and succinct and nicely illustrated. Some are kinky, some are basic, some are a little more daring but they're all guaranteed to spice up your evening. If you like the idea of dirty talk but sometimes get a bit tongue-tied this will absolutely boost your confidence, point you in the right direction and give you a good stock of phrases to whip out at the right moment. Similarly, if you want to help a partner feel more comfortable with such things, this would be a great gift. The perfect cheeky stocking filler.